Don't bother to read this post cause i bet you will sleep immediately.

I seriously don't agree to what you say lah. What treat your competitors as your enemies cause competition is a realistic thing. What cannot talk to them during warm up. Yeah, i know competition is a realistic thing but do you know what is the true meaning to competition anot. Its sportsmanship and friendship. What the point to have a competition when you are only allowed to prove how strong and powerful you are. Friendship is the thing that will last forever okay. Winning is just for your satisfying yourself and gaining high recognition. But if you win and no one share the joy with you, is it worth it? Yes, we got to fight with our competitors, but do you know that we still can be friends at the same time.

If thats what you say, treat your competitors as enemy, why not say treat your classmates the same why too, they also compete with you in results what. How about lets say treat your friends as enemies too cause they also compete with you in some way. OHYEAH, how about treat your siblings as enemies too cause parents will compare the both of you all. If that is what youre going to do, then HOW are you going to make friends. You will be known as a loner and how are you going to do well in the future. You need your friends to support you all the way as you know they will be there for you no matter what.

To me, i think happiness is the most important thing. Winning or losing does not matter. Its up to how you think and what you decided to do. Once you set your heart and soul into doing that certain thing, just do it as nothing is impossible. But through this process, there bound to be failures and we have to accept it and learn from our mistakes. There is no such thing as a perfect person who will never make mistakes. As long as you have a passion for doing something, just do it, although you may know that you have a small percentage of making to the top, but at least you know that you tried your best and do not regret your decision. Passion is what drive you to continue working hard for what you want to achieve.

So think about it, being happy or winning is more important? Sometimes, you can't have both at the same time. God created so many obstacles for us is to let us experience them and try not to make the same mistake again. Even if the same mistake is made over and over again, try to learn from them. There is no such thing as perfect but lets try to be near to perfect. I rmb someone said, "Even if you can't reach the moon, you can reach the stars." DO YOUR BEST AND BE HAPPY.